Max: Basically, how I see it, there are three possibilities.

One: I know a girl who had a boyfriend whom she kept secret from her parents because they didn’t want her to have boyfriends until after high school. They were together for a year and a half. So “sneaking around” not lasting? PSH.

Two: You continue to see each other, you get sent to Arkansas, and he gets bitched out. This could lead to two other roads: you both stay in a long distance relationship because of how in love you are, or you just can’t handle the distance and end it.

Three: You break up with him so as to not let anything come between you and your family, because family is, after all, the most important thing (and if they hate him now, would they approve of your planned out future together?).

I can’t tell you what you should do. You have to decide for yourself the best option in front of you. Do you want to be sent to Arkansas? Do you want to break up? Do you want to find a better boy that your parents would approve of? I’m not saying it’ll be easy, but perhaps you should go the route that leads to the fewest people being hurt.

Aimi: Closure is always important in a relationship, especially if it was a serious relationship and you’re not quite sure why things happened. It’s also important because it ties up any loose ends and gets rid of anything that needs to be said. If he’s not willing to meet though, don’t push it, he may not be mature enough to handle facing you and if that’s the case, it’s not worth it.

Aimi: Every person is different, there are alot of key factors that play into the relationship. The length, depth of feelings, and how many you’ve dealt with before; however, even if it feels like you’re never going to get over it, you always will. 

Aimi: Every person is different, there are alot of key factors that play into the relationship. The length, depth of feelings, and how many you’ve dealt with before; however, even if it feels like you’re never going to get over it, you always will. 

Max: If you’re ever having trouble with the distance, just remember that the time you do spend together will be even more special, and in the end it’ll all be worth it.

Max: If you honestly think you’re in love then try to reconcile. You don’t know how he feels about it, and you never will until you try to talk to him. If you move away then you’ll always be wondering, and he’ll be the one that got away. If he still wants to have something with you, then yay. If not, then at least you’re moving somewhere new where you’ll be able to meet new people, and maybe someone you could love more than him.

Max: If you honestly think you’re in love then try to reconcile. You don’t know how he feels about it, and you never will until you try to talk to him. If you move away then you’ll always be wondering, and he’ll be the one that got away. If he still wants to have something with you, then yay. If not, then at least you’re moving somewhere new where you’ll be able to meet new people, and maybe someone you could love more than him.

Max: If you’re ever having trouble with the distance, just remember that the time you do spend together will be even more special, and in the end it’ll all be worth it.

Max: First of all, don’t “chase” if he won’t “chase” back. Find out where you both stand. It’ll just end up hurting you more if you try to pursue someone, especially long distance, who has no intention of allowing you to become his significant other. Especially because this is long distance, you shouldn’t pursue unless you’re absolutely sure you’re willing put forward the effort and commitment, because it is a hard thing and it will be difficult and you shouldn’t commit if you’re gonna decide a month or two later that its too hard and you can’t handle the distance. You haven’t talked to someone the way you talk to him? I doubt it, I think that’s probably your way of justifying your crush on him. If its true then of course find out if you both have a mutual attraction/understanding.

Max: First of all, don’t “chase” if he won’t “chase” back. Find out where you both stand. It’ll just end up hurting you more if you try to pursue someone, especially long distance, who has no intention of allowing you to become his significant other. Especially because this is long distance, you shouldn’t pursue unless you’re absolutely sure you’re willing put forward the effort and commitment, because it is a hard thing and it will be difficult and you shouldn’t commit if you’re gonna decide a month or two later that its too hard and you can’t handle the distance. You haven’t talked to someone the way you talk to him? I doubt it, I think that’s probably your way of justifying your crush on him. If its true then of course find out if you both have a mutual attraction/understanding.